“If you get obsessed with whether you’re making the right decision, you are basically assuming that the universe will reward you for one thing and punish you for another. This is not the correct assumption because the universe is flexible; it adapts to any decision you make.”
So, are there wrong decisions or just new experiences? Why do we believe we have to make choices? Who determines if the choice is right or wrong?
Being choice-makers keeps us and our mind trapped in this sequence of right and wrongs. Wouldn’t you think we could enjoy life more if we let go the need for choices? We may be able to live without boundaries and limitations, acting at the will of God with complete trust. If we just are aware (here is the key: “aware”), we may do choices spontaneously without the need of trapping our minds into thinking and thinking about risks, people’s reactions, future impact, etc of every decision.
We should let go the need to evaluate whether we did right or wrong decisions. Let’s list some of the “wrong” decisions we have made and then write all the good things that came from them. I’m sure we find great things coming out of those “wrong” choices. “Every event in life can be causing one of two things: (1) It’s good for you; or (2) It’s bringing what you need to look at in order to create good for you.”
Life is self-correcting, so don’t hammer or punish your Self when you think you have made the wrong choice or when things don’t go as “planned.”
See the possibilities in “whatever” happens. When you don’t get what you wished, ask yourself where am I supposed to look? And just be open to change course to a new, maybe even richer experience!
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